tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5687955625398619602.post7575755206272366819..comments2023-10-21T17:39:15.968+01:00Comments on Life In The One Percent: I just think you need to get a job x1000Kabbalah Rookiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12737692859267786264noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5687955625398619602.post-69310541524968852902010-02-09T22:38:02.428+00:002010-02-09T22:38:02.428+00:00Hi e,
I think recognition is key re: the seeking ...Hi e,<br /><br />I think recognition is key re: the seeking approval - what I am aware of I can work on with my teacher. Not sure I have time for therapy at the moment which sounds ridiculous! (Plus, the mikveh worked wonders yesterday). And yes, I hear what you are saying about their fears - that's exactly what it is. I don't think I was 'seeking' my Dad's approval - just hoping for it and not getting it! Hey Ho.<br /><br />Being on my own and trying to move is draining me at the moment, but I have no friends living nearby to help out. My own fault - let's see if I can break out of the Billy No Mates by moving... xxKabbalah Rookiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12737692859267786264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5687955625398619602.post-27038543342713240102010-02-09T22:17:20.837+00:002010-02-09T22:17:20.837+00:00KR,
I hope the next three weeks go smoothly. I...KR,<br /><br />I hope the next three weeks go smoothly. I'm prompted to ask at this juncture whether a decent therapist could not aid you in dealing with parental issues like these...<br /><br />I learnt not to go looking for parental approval from people who try as they might could not understand me and who were more interested in "seeing me sorted" because of their own fears...<br /><br />I also learnt to get help with things like moving which would otherwise drain energy and resources I could not spare. Can friends help with the sorting, donating and moving?<br /><br />Best to you!ehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11376645220662546020noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5687955625398619602.post-65889111059982940842010-02-09T15:24:00.077+00:002010-02-09T15:24:00.077+00:00Alan! So good to see you back - I see that you ha...Alan! So good to see you back - I see that you had a wonderful time away. Yes, I can imagine that when I have kids I will be exactly the same - LOL. Thanks for the good luck - let's see how the next three weeks unfold....Kabbalah Rookiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12737692859267786264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5687955625398619602.post-76029137732502091072010-02-09T11:27:32.899+00:002010-02-09T11:27:32.899+00:00Hi Kab, Glad to see that you seem more positive ab...Hi Kab, Glad to see that you seem more positive about life than when I was last around. I can remember many, many conversations with my father which took a very similar direction to yours with your father. The frightening thing is that now I tend to have them with my son. Good luck with the next three weeks, but luck won't have anything to do with it.Alan Burnetthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01015127443616786425noreply@blogger.com